Creating Community 

10 Rules for Respect
A Communication covenant to help Immanuel build trust.
Proverbs 25:9-15; Ephesians 4:15-16

If I have a problem with another person, I will go to him privately. 

If someone has a problem with me, I want him to come to me privately and will try to be open when he comes.

If someone has a problem with me, and comes to you, send the person to me. [I’ll do the same for you.]

If someone hesitates to come to me, say, “”Let’s go together. I’m sure he’ll see you about this.” [I’ll do the same for you.]

Be careful about how you interpret me – I’d rather do that.

I will be careful about how I interpret you.

If it’s confidential, I won’t tell. [Unless someone is harming himself or someone else.]

I won’t send or pay attention to unsigned letters or notes. Information should always travel with a person’s name so it can be cleared up if necessary.

I will not manipulate; I will not be manipulated.

When in doubt, I will bring up my concern or question.